If you agree to be a backup lover or backup romantic option when you are expected to wait around in friends zone while the lover you really want explores things with an ex or another lover who they want more than you, you’re simply demeaning yourself and lowering your value in their eyes. You deserve someone who cherishes you and loves you as their best romantic option and not some backup plan. No one will ever do or say anything to you that you don’t invite them to do. Always stand up for yourself, what you want, what you deserve and never agree to a relationship or romantic terms that are not what you are looking for. Why? You’ll only waste days, weeks, months and even years of your precious life and end up broken hearted and disappointed anyway. You don’t get what you deserve in life, … [Read More...]
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In this coaching newsletter, we are covering how to create the right vibe and conditions to influence beautiful women around you to approach you first in order to get their phone numbers, contact information or make a date on the spot, instead of you having to make the effort to pursue them and try and pull them. I discuss an email from a viewer who is new to my work but he said he wanted to test out what I teach to see how women would react to him. He went to a friend’s birthday party at a bar, and instead of approaching women he was interested in he just hung back, exhibited the proper body language, and simply focused on enjoying himself. In doing so, he behaved completely the opposite … [Read More...]
I remember a former relationship with a girlfriend of mine who once told me she missed having a father figure in her life. She talked about how she never got the attention of her father when she was growing up with her siblings and it was her mother who used to assume the role of provider and the one who would “get things done”. In other words, her mother had to be the one who was acting in her masculine. This made my ex-girlfriend view men in a rather demeaning way. She would link them to her dad and assume that we are all useless (completely fucking untrue!). She would challenge any man who tried to take any kind of lead or initiative in a relationship with her. So, once you gained her … [Read More...]
Many of my clients ask the question, how do i know if she is attracted to me? does she love me? How do i get women to like me and find me attractive?? When it comes to attraction the harsh but simple truth is that a woman either likes you or she dosn’t. The interest level is either about 50% or higher than you stand a chance. Attraction is not a choice and within 5 seconds both men and women know if they are attracted to each other. The rest comes after we open our mouths and how we conduct ourselves. The opinion of these women is based on how they are feeling towards you at a given moment in time. If she is attracted to you at that point i guess it’s up to you not to act like a … [Read More...]
Many of my clients and friends talk to me about dating and finding “The One” in today’s world. They tell me it’s so hard to find the right person. The way the world has become, western society demands from us a lot of commitment to our jobs in order to succeed. These demands in turn cause pressures on relationships. The world is no longer how it used to be where the men went to work and the woman stayed at home and looked after the house and kids. Some would argue that relationships functioned a lot more smoothly because roles were defined and there was less opportunity and choice. However, then came along the feminist movement and the internet! And low and behold the world changed … [Read More...]
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